1. Lift you anchor and get going... there aren't safe harbors for stormy marriages. Commitment heads into the storm determined to be made stronger because of it. What you need is to cling to each other not the safety of the shore.
2. Steer right into the middle of the storm. You can't run from the reality of emotional dysfunction, physical infidelity, or spiritual weakness. Commit to stick with each other and ride the storm out.
3. Get rid of voices, things, and forsake everyone and everything for each other. Time to throw the baggage over board and just cling to each other. Those voices are causing you to list and roll. You don't need that crap or those crappy voices weighing you down and pulling your over board.
4. Lash yourselves to the ship, "your marriage" and lash your captain to the mast. Your captain is the Holy Spirit. He is wiser than you both and you both need Him. Then lash yourselves to Him. You do recognize you are not the Captain of your ship right?
5. When you come out of the storm and you will. Rejoice! The best rides are the stormy ones your Captain and your commitment to each other will take you through. What a ride! You can beat the odds!
